Tuesday, August 31, 2004

Long time

Ok, I know - I just realised that the last time that I made a post was the 11th of August. So that means one of a few things - either I haven't been thinkin' or I have been really busy, or both!

Well to be honest I have been pretty busy in the last few weeks - I told the boss that I was not busy enough - so he made sure I am! At least I am enjoying it.

AM looking forward to a really LONG update here in the future, but for now I am tied up in meetings... which is probably a good topic for my next blog.

Wednesday, August 11, 2004

another day another....

... er, Dollar?

Well it's another day and another blog for you - I don't know if there is anyone out there who is reading this. Well maybe that's because I haven't really told anyone :)

I have just bee thinkin' IM (Instant Messanger) is a really kewl thing - if there are people to talk to, that is. I have been logged on all morning and not a single hello! I am starting to wonder if my wife is right - that technology increases the distance between people instead of decreasing it ? This is something else that I'd like to explore a little more some time... but till then... keep thinkin'

Tuesday, August 10, 2004

My Challenge

While I may not be focusing on "self improvement" (I hate that term), there are always changes in our lives! So there really is something here for me. I like it where he says "Personal improvement starts when you change something you do daily"

Someone recently said to me that changing city will not change your lifestyle - and here it is again - its the thing that is done in your daily (I read, ordinary goings on, mundane, normal, everyday) life, especially something that works on the internal, that will affect the rest of your life! I have recently experienced this in going back to gym. On a daily basis it took a commitment and sacrifice, and it doesn't even feel like I am feeling/seeing the benefits yet, but it is becoming a habit... which will become a change in lifestyle!

So the question then is, "what am I going to change?" - well for me I am feeling like I need to work on my effectiveness, that there needs to be a focus and intent, in my life, so I am going to focus that in on my time with God.

What are you going to change?

Change

Here is an extract from something that someone sent to me (based on Self Improvement Topic by John C Maxwell)


In my life, I choose daily to improve in several key areas: intellectually, physically, relationally, and spiritually. These daily improvements aren't necessarily huge; in fact, taken individually, they may seem rather minor. But, as I once heard a teacher explain, "Daily goals are reached by doing things which may be uncomfortable at first, but eventually will become habits. And habits are powerful things. Habits turn actions into attitudes, and attitudes into lifestyles."

You may classify areas of potential improvement differently than I do. But the categories you choose to work on aren't nearly as important as your overall commitment to improve. Are you improving every day? Have you developed the daily discipline to say, "I'm working in these specific areas"? Do you have a clearly defined target—a way to know when you've achieved your desired result?

Whether you want to hone your public speaking skills, become a better listener, lose weight, get more organized, or advance in some other way, here are some insights about improvement that will help to guide you as you grow.

1. Don't be afraid to admit you were wrong.
Acknowledging your mistakes proves you're wiser today than you were yesterday. If you never admit you're wrong, you're saying, "I'm not growing; I'm not wiser."

2. You will never change your life, until you change something that you do daily.
This is a huge concept to grasp. People always tell me, "I'm going to make some major changes.' My response to that is simple: Certain aspects of your life might need a significant overhaul, but I don't need to know about those big changes. I'm more interested in the minor change you plan to make today. Personal improvement starts when you change something you do daily—a routine, a habit, a way of working, or interacting with other people.